divorce
coaching
support
Find your 'divine nature'.
Find that quiet voice of wisdom, love and resilience within us that knows we not only have the power to heal, but also to thrive, for ourselves,
and for our children.
divorce deity
Legal Clarity. Emotional Strength.
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Legal Clarity. Emotional Strength. A Sacred™ Path Forward.
Find that the quiet voice of wisdom, love and resilience within us that knows we not only have the power to heal, but also to thrive, for ourselves, and for our children.
divorce coaching
support
co-parenting
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less tragedy, more fairytale
your family story
aims to rewrite
my methodology
"Divorce will scar your children for life",
goes the great misconception.
I remember exactly where I was, and how much I hated it, when this was first said to me by a "well-meaning" family member.
Since then, I've spent over a decade challenging this supposed truth and discovered, it's a lie.
So, if divorce must happen, then learning how to move beyond past mistakes and now move forward, ethically and effectively, will help secure your children's future and reclaim your happiness, no matter what the outcome.
In truth, if a divorce is handled with grace, compassion, respect, and honesty, by even just one parent, (you), then the experience of moving through it can be a phenomenal one.
It offers you and your children the opportunity to evolve far beyond your current limitations and gain invaluable skills and insights, opening doors for peace, connection and a very successful future.
What is divorce Coaching & conscious co-parenting?
— Ariana, mum of 3
I woke up every day dreading the day, worrying about court dates, affidavits and contact with their father. But after the Reset day, I feel far more in control and I know that I can deal with anything that comes my way because I'm thinking about it rationally. Working with Kashmira changed everything for me.
Unlike generalised therapy or counselling that focuses solely on one area of your life, I delve deep quickly, coaching you to explore your values, your goals and challenges, legal, emotional and financial. I strive to understand your family as a whole in order to help strengthen and prepare you for co-parenting and what lies ahead.
unfortunately, yes. you have to advocate for your family. you have to understand the system well enough to steer it in the right direction.
Working with solicitors and barristers, understanding Judges and Cafcass, supervised access and/or child arrangement orders, can all be very overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time. You wonder if any of them really understands your unique family or whether they're all simply taking a cookie cutter approach, creating more heartache and separation.
Parenting can be a challenge at the best of times, however parenting whilst going through a divorce is parenting on steroids. There are just too many heightened emotions.
So Conscious Co-Parenting rests on cultivating parental self-awareness, presence and emotional regulation to best help yourself, and your child, move smoothly through this transition, and beyond.
What is divorce Coaching & conscious co-parenting?
divorce is a game
meet Kashmira
Divorce can often feel like a game,
a business,
in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
Divorce can often feel like a game, a business, in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
So divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a lifeline.
It's imperative to find a divorce coach who understands the "game" and can help you succeed, without compromising your integrity, which is crucial for a positive result.
It doesn't matter what he does or he says or how she acts or what she thinks.
Especially if there are children involved, you've likely already realised the process is convoluted, confusing, antagonising and, at times, unfair.
the right coach will offer you:
strategic guidance
emotional balance
effective communication &
an ethical approach
Kashmira's coaching transformed my life! Her insights and strategies were exactly what I needed.”
— RITA, mum of 3
there are 2 ways to work with me
sacred™ reset
A deeply restorative, 1-day, in-person, immersive session to find your calm, understand the situation with crystal clear with clarity, and decide your direction.
A 12-week programme designed to welcome you into a new life of peace, connection, harmony and success in every single area as a woman and as a mother.
When the SACRED 12-week programme isn't immediately possible, the SACRED™ Reset is your saviour.
A deeply restorative, in-person day designed to help you return to yourself, make sense of the chaos, and move forward with absolute grace and clarity.
An intensive half-day immersion to find calm, immense clarity and direction during divorce.
SACRED™
reset
SACRED™
reset
Get in touch now
You'd like to rebuild with a sense of peace and possibility and clear plans on how you're going to move forward in order to succeed.
You'd like to unravel what’s been weighing on your heart, explore the thoughts and beliefs keeping you angry and afraid.
You’d like time to breathe, talk, think, plan, understand and be fully seen, all in one visit, without noise and interruption.
You'd like to meet in a beautiful, private room near you (in and around London) for a day curated around reflection and brainstorming solutions.
the sacred™ reset might be for you if...
Due to the nature of coaching sessions, all sales are final.
£618
5 hours (includes refreshments and a short break)
Bespoke, private, beautiful, calming venue near you (I’ll arrange this for your comfort)
A BREAKTHROUGH session to calm the chaos, set strategy, and leave you feeling crystal clear and capable.
sacred™ reset
investment
This format is ideal for individuals seeking dedicated support and guidance on their journey of self-improvement and professional development. We'll work together to uncover your true potential, set achievable goals, and develop strategies tailored to your life's ambitions.
Supportive, dedicated sessions tailored to your needs
SACRED™
programme
You’re looking for dedicated support in navigating significant life transitions.
You desire a customized approach that addresses your unique aspirations.
You value a private and confidential setting to explore and overcome personal challenges.
You're seeking personalized guidance tailored to your specific situation and goals.
the SACRED™programme might be for you if...
Payment plans available when you click LET'S BEGIN
Due to the nature of coaching sessions, all sales are final.
£1950
x12
60 min sessions
1:1 coaching
become the best you,
you can ever be!
the sacred™ programme
investment
One-time investment, instalment plans, or monthly subscriptions, it's all just a simple one-click payment system, right from within your unique Client Portal.
Affidavit Editing
In family court cases, individuals who do not have legal representation can bring support. I will help you stay calm and focused take detailed notes and assist you in discussing matters during breaks.
90 mins, £125.
Easy Payment Plans
Via our native video communication tool. Wherever you are in the world enjoy high-quality and reliable video calls. Nothing to upload or download. Just click.
Online Sessions
Solicitors charge £6 per minute to edit your affidavits (i.e £720 for 2 hrs work). If you're struggling to convey your message clearly, I can help fine-tune it to ensure it is polished and professional.
90 mins, £125.
WhatsApp Support
Personalised, informed coaching to guide you through the SACRED™ Programme: Self-Awareness, Acceptance, Co-Parenting, Rebuilding Identity, Emotional Mastery, Divine Integration.
Healing doesn’t follow a schedule, and neither do triggers. When you’re in the SACRED™ Programme, you are never alone between sessions, you are fully supported.
12, Weekly, 1:1, Sessions
Support in Court
what's included in the sacred™ programme
helpful Add-ons
"The mind is like water.
When it's turbulent, it's difficult to see. When it's calm, everything becomes clear."
- PRASAD MAHES
Emerging research has shown how investing in a specialist divorce coach actually saves you money, as well as reducing conflict and tension.
££££
Life changes dramatically and permanently for the better in every way!
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SACRED™ PRO
Everything makes sense and you're feeling much calmer!
SACRED™
RESET
Stress reduces, as you see a glimmer of hope for the journey forward.
SACRED™
HOUR
The results are amazing!
Children from low-conflict divorced homes tend to fare far better than those from high-conflict marriages that stay together.
be your best!
Coaching with me will help you make informed, rational, calm decisions instead of reactive ones driven by emotions, which lawyers tend to exploit.
take note!
the method works!
Q&A
Therapy often explores the past and deep healing. Coaching is more present- and future-focused. I help you shift mindset, take empowered action, and stay grounded through the divorce process and beyond.
What’s the difference between therapy and coaching?
Perfect! Coaching complements legal and therapeutic support. I help you navigate the emotional, relational, and parenting challenges that the legal system doesn't address.
What if I’m already working with a lawyer or therapist?
Yes. 100%. Everything shared is kept in full confidence. You need a space that feels safe, judgment-free, and fully yours— and this is that space.
Will our sessions be confidential?
You're not alone. This work is especially powerful when your co-parent is difficult. I’ll help you stay grounded, set boundaries, and protect your children from unnecessary conflict.
What if my ex is high-conflict or uncooperative?
— Michelle, mum of 2
"No one prepares you for what divorce is really about and how the person you thought you knew can suddenly become your arch enemy. Supervised contact, forced mediation, child arrangement orders, hearings, what on earth! It's all so stressful and painful. I was so angry about the way things were progressing so I reached out to Kashmira and all I can say is, I wish I'd reached out sooner. She made everything better".
Will lift the weight you’re carrying.
You may even smile.
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