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Find your 'divine nature'.
Find that quiet voice of wisdom, love and resilience within us that knows we not only have the power to heal, but also to thrive, for ourselves,
and for our children.
divorce deity
Legal Clarity. Emotional Strength.
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Co-parenting support is grounded in the same SACRED™ framework, with a particular focus on emotional regulation, boundaries, and reducing the impact of adult dynamics on the child.
The intention is not to change your co-parent, but to strengthen your steadiness, clarity, and agency within the situation you are navigating.
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less tragedy, more fairytale
your family story
aims to rewrite
my framework
"Divorce will scar your children for life",
goes the great misconception.
I remember exactly where I was, and how much I hated it, when this was first said to me by a "well-meaning" family member.
Since then, I've spent over a decade challenging this supposed truth and discovered, it's a lie.
So, if divorce must happen, then learning how to move beyond past mistakes and now move forward, ethically and effectively, will help secure your children's future and reclaim your happiness, no matter what the outcome.
In truth, if a divorce is handled with grace, compassion, respect, and honesty, by even just one parent, (you), then the experience of moving through it can be a phenomenal one.
It offers you and your children the opportunity to evolve far beyond your current limitations and gain invaluable skills and insights, opening doors for peace, connection and a very successful future.
What is divorce Coaching?
— Sophia, SACRED™ Programme graduate
I came to The Parent Garden feeling lost, overwhelmed, and very afraid of making the wrong decisions for the kids, since most of my decisions were coming from a place of hate and fear about divorce.
Week by week, I practiced what I learnt with Kashmira and slowly began to feel less sad and less hatred. The first time I heard myself make a decision consciously rather than reactively, I felt relief and began to believe that the kids and I were going to be okay.
- Rebecca Lowe
This reproof effectually silenced us both for the rest of the evening. Nay, indeed, for some minutes it seemed to silence every body else; till Mr. Lovel, not willing to lose an opportunity of returning the Captain's sarcasm, said, "Why, really Sir, it is but natural
"Brynn made it easy to finally adapt a self care program so that I can become more productive in my life and business."
- ANIYA BROOKS
Not a village but has its barns and comedians; and as for the stage business, why it may be pretty equally done any where; and even in regard to us, and the canaille, confined as we all are within the semi-circle of a theatre, there is no place where the distinction.
"I am finally pushing myself to new levels with my practice that I didn't think were possible before I met Coach Brynn."
Unlike generalised therapy or counselling that focuses solely on one area of your life, I delve deep quickly, coaching you to explore your values, your goals and challenges, legal, emotional and financial. I strive to understand your family as a whole in order to help strengthen and prepare you for co-parenting and what lies ahead.
yes, unfortunately, you have to advocate for your family. you have to understand the system well enough to steer it in the right direction.
Working with solicitors and barristers, understanding Judges and Cafcass, supervised access and/or child arrangement orders, can all be very overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time. You wonder if any of them really understands your unique family or whether they're all simply taking a cookie cutter approach, creating more heartache and separation.
Parenting can be a challenge at the best of times, however parenting whilst going through a divorce is parenting on steroids. There are just too many heightened emotions.
So Conscious Co-Parenting rests on cultivating parental self-awareness, presence and emotional regulation to best help yourself, and your child, move smoothly through this transition, and beyond.
What is divorce Coaching & conscious co-parenting?
divorce is a game
— Michelle, mum of 2
"No one prepares you for what divorce is really about and how the person you thought you knew can suddenly become your arch enemy. Supervised contact, forced mediation, child arrangement orders, hearings! It's all so stressful and painful. I was so angry about the way things were progressing so I reached out to Kashmira and all I can say is, I wish I'd reached out sooner. Truly she made everything better".
Divorce can often feel like a game,
a business,
in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
Divorce can often feel like a game, a business, in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
So divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a lifeline.
It's imperative to find a divorce coach who understands the "game" and can help you succeed, without compromising your integrity, which is crucial for a positive result.
It doesn't matter what he does or he says or how she acts or what she thinks.
Especially if there are children involved, you've likely already realised the process is convoluted, confusing, antagonising and, at times, unfair.
the right coach will offer you:
strategic guidance
emotional balance
effective communication &
an ethical approach
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A clarity call is a gentle, no-obligation conversation to explore what support would feel most helpful for you right now, whether you’re navigating everyday parenting challenges or more complex co-parenting dynamics.